Anonymous asked: my best friend, whom ive been talking to a bunch more lately, told me he likes me and has for a while and i don't know what to do. im in a relationship and i just want to be friends and he texted me this today on friday after school because he didnt want it to be awkward or something and he kinda sounded like he wasnt expecting reciprocation but im not sure and i kinda just didnt respond at all. what do you suggest i say?
Just be honest. If you just want to be friends, say that.
I know it’s hard because you don’t want to hurt your friend’s feelings, but you don’t like him like that and he has to respect that.
-Ezra
Anonymous asked: Hi. This is quite a strange one. I hope you can answer. I am in love with a guy with the most severe ever speech impediment. Nobody can ever understand a word he's saying, including me. I really don't know what to do because I can't go out with someone who I can't understand. Please help.
try to maybe talk to him online, and maybe the more you talk to him and the more you are with him the more youll understand what hes saying? if not, try to figure out how to understand or communicate w him so you both are comfortable! i really hope youll figure this out!
-jo
Anonymous asked: So I kinda have a thing for this guy but when we started talking and stuff I didn't know he had a girlfriend and we were talking more like flirty and stuff and then his girlfriend found out and now she gives me like fucking death stares whenever I come within like a 10ft radius of him and like I miss talking to him just as friends idk but we never even like say hi to each other anymore bc she scares me lol like idk what to do?? does this even make sense ugh sorry
yeah it makes sense baby i was in the same situation before christmas and it makes sense ok
i get that she’s scary and yeah it’s really scary but just like send the dude a message asking how he’s doing or s/t but avoid talking about his gf and stuff!! just tell him you miss being his friend like properly and if he’s smart enough he’ll understand that his gf acted weird and dumb and that she shouldn’t stop you guys from being friends! either way you should just shoot him a text or message on fb just to like talk to him again but keep the hearts and flirty stuff away yep ily i hope it works out!!
-jo
Anonymous asked: I burned my arm and it looks really gross and i dont know what to do
cool it down with cold water and clean it with whatever you have to clean it with, then bandage it up to avoid infections. ily
-jo
Anonymous asked: im in a real mess do people still listen and/or help here? please this is urgent i don't klnow where else to go all the online counselling services aqre closed right now
yeah angel im here
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm the anon looking for a new GP in the town with one hospital. The hospital doesn't accept trans* patients, nor will it confidentiality from other doctors and I have family members working their that I'd rather not let them have access to my medcal records. I'd also need a very knowledgeable doctor to deal with the hemophilia and the only hematologists in town are these 3 really condescending cis guys. Should I try to get a ride to the next big city (a few hours away)?
Hiya!
I would definitely make some calls. Do some searching online, and if you can find a good doctor in the next city, absolutely try to get over there.
Best of luck!
-Ezra
Anonymous asked: i think im in love but it doesnt even feel good it hurts so bad its making everything worse than it already is. we live unbelievably many miles apart, theres a whole ocean between us, but i do love him. and i think he might love me that way back. but hes said before that he doesnt do long distance, and im scared of long distance as ive had bad experiences with it before. i just want to be able to be with him and the fact that i cant makes it fucking hard for me to cope idk what do to im lost
Distance is poop, it’s a fact. Ok I’m going to be honest, it’s clear that what’s most likely for you to get out of this is pain, so no matter how hard it is you have to work on getting over him. It may sound really bad but love isn’t really supposed to make you suffer, not like that.
- Nez
Anonymous asked: Any good coping techniques?
Depends on what you need to cope with, I guess… I want to help but do you mind being more specific? Sorry I just really want to help.
- Nez
Anonymous asked: How do you tell a doctor that you want to switch doctors without sounding bad? I'm a hemophiliac, I've been on OCs since age12, I've not been able to stop bleeding even when I was on the highest dose that was safe for me to take and testosterone for 3 months. I've had a non-stop period for six weeks since she switched me to depo, I'm worried about my blood count. I'm also overdue for a pelvic exam(my first)and she's my mom's friend and I'm 16, I don't want my mom's friend examining me...
Maybe he’ll her exactly that! Tell her you feel uncomfortable being examined by a friend of a parent I don’t think that’s rude at all and they should understand!
- Nez
Anonymous asked: I just wanted to say that I wish I could give bunnies to all the lonely, sad, traumatized, unhappy people who come here seeking help. I have severe PTSD and my bunny is very grounding, loves me unconditionally, is the bestest companion, gives cuddles and kisses and makes me laugh and smile a lot and I think everyone who is having a hard time should be able to have those things.
That is really sweet of you! I’m glad you have a source of support, it’s much better than going through things without help.
- Nez
