Anonymous asked: transgender anon from like the last answered ask. I need to come out cos it's really stressful but she probably won't accept me and will make me go to a therapist just like she's threatened if I don't 'change back' to 'loving dresses"
I know, it really is stressful. Coming out is always tough. Maybe you can try to find videos, diagrams, ect. that help explain the idea of being trans* in a positive light. I’ve been gathering some, and I think they’re quite helpful. If you want, I could post a few of them.
Also, there are such things as gender therapists, who help you in the process of physically transitioning. I’ve heard that they’re quite helpful.
~Avie
Anonymous asked: i'm so sick of being screwed up. I know you guys say being transgender isn't bad but it's obviously just a lie i've made up to be happy I mean i'm 14 and have 'known' for 5 months but mum says i'm too young to know help me stop lying to myself. I can't be a guy. I must be a girl.
My mom had a similar reaction when I came out to her. But honestly, the only person who can know your gender is you. It doesn’t matter how old you are. As a wise man once said, your age doesn’t make you or your gender any less valid.
~Avie
Anonymous asked: I'm the anon from earlier today, the one who doesn't think they'll make it through today. Im done with school for today, I ran away from home after putting my bag there. I'm currently outside a friend's house, he and his family is not home so I'll stay here until I decide wether I am going to kill myself or not. I want to kill myself. So badly. I can't stay anymore.
Baby you don’t need to kill yourself. Please don’t. Your life is worth so much and i know it doesn’t seem like it now, but it really is. I’m sorry i don’t know the background story behind you so i can’t give you specific help unless you tell me some more, but. Please. Stay here, stay breathing because you’re so worth it. I promise, this life is worth living. Don’t give up on it x
-Jay
Anonymous asked: Is being tired all the time a sign of depression? I mean, I get enough sleep. I fall asleep around ten and wake up about seven so I shouldn't be tired all the time.
It can be, but you can’t just assume that because you’re tired you’re depressed, obviously. Fatigue is a sign of hundreds and hundreds of different things. With depression it’s feeling emotionally exhausted though, rather than physically. it’s kind of hard to explain. but yeah, it can be, only if you have other symptoms of depression too. if it’s concerning you that you’re constantly tired, talk to a doctor and you can see if it is depression or something.
-Jay
Anonymous asked: I can't make it through. They don't want to help, I've asked before and thus just hate me. They think I'm pathetic. They're right. There's no point in me staying.
No! If your friends won’t help you, et your parents/teachers, a professional to help you. Your life IS worth living, you just have to find the reasons why.
- Nez
Anonymous asked: Please tell me someone's online to answer this. I'm so scared I might kill myself now. Today. I promised my best friend to stay clean a week; both from drugs, alcohol, smoking, cutting, burning and purging. But I've already failed. I can't deal with life anymore, even if I know I have to stay. I'm scared I might not be here throughout the day. I seriously don't see any point. I can't handle this pain anymore.
I believe you do have it in you to stay. You have friends to help you, a lot of people have to go through it alone, and you don’t. Use your friends’ support, and you can go trough anything. Friends are one of the reasons to LIVE, so why die when you have them? Hold on, and ask for their help. You can make it.
- Nez
Anonymous asked: why should i even bother anymore, with anything, its not like theres a point especially not when i keep fucking up and ha guess what i fucked up my friends mood too i mean i swear to god shes struggling with depression and there i go and fuck up her mood i mean what the fuck is wrong with me tell me why i should care or live or do anything anymore
You should live because you deserve to. You have to stay, you can’t just leave everyone. That’ll fuck up your friend’s mood even more, that’ll probably make her even more depressed and she’ll feel so shit. All your friends will be so down, and many of them won’t be able to recover from this.
You should stay, and care, because you are wonderful. You’ll get past this, one day you’ll be able to not fuck things up. You’re important, your friends love you. Your family loves you. /I/ love you. You have a future, even if you don’t see it. Your future is bright, sweetheart, ill be okay. You’re able to do whatever you want with it, and if you don’t know what to do with it now, no problem! You have all the time in the works to figure out what you want to do with your life. You’ve got so much potential. You can’t just leave.
Think about all you’ll miss out on. All the people you won’t meet, the places you won’t see, the stuff you won’t experience. Stay, baby. Stay for all of this.
-Josefine
